Orgasm is a state of heightened sexual satisfaction. It is a sudden discharge of accumulated sexual tension resulting in rhythmic muscular contractions in the pelvic region characterized by an intense sensation of pleasure.
They are often associated with muscular spasms in multiple areas of the body, a general euphoric sensation. The period after orgasm is often a relaxing experience.
What benefits do we get from having an orgasm?
-It can relax you when you are stressed, it produces a calming effect.
-It can make you sleepy when you are tossing and turning.
-It can brighten your day and put you in a good mood.
-In addition to stress relief and helping you to relax so you can fall asleep, an orgasm helps you in other aspects of your well being.
-Several studies show that having an orgasm can work as a natural pain reliever. When you have an orgasm, endorphins are released by your body during sex and can help to increase your tolerance of pain.
-Orgasms can also help you burn calories. Certain research also shows that having an orgasm can calm your cravings for junk food as well as cigarettes, which is a very positive thing.
Now knowing all the benefits of orgasm would you deprive yourself of it?
Vaginal dryness and pain on intercourse are the things that will hinder you from achieving your orgasm.
This occur when you are not very well stimulated or if you are nearing menopause. For the first one, the solution is simple know your weak points, condition your mind, communicate with your partner (read my post on how to achieve orgasm and enjoy every minute of it) to give you a longer foreplay but it is only a temporary solution
If you want to have a long secure relationship you must choose a solution that would change the way you look at yourself and the way your partner sees you.
The MonaLisa Touch is a unique treatment that would solve vaginal dryness and pain on intercourse. It is a non surgical treatment that only trained specialists can do. No painful vaginal surgery, no limitation of sexual activity, no hormonal replacement therapy.
Ask your gynecologist about it.
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
Saturday, May 12, 2012
YOUR SEXUAL OBLIGATION to your PARTNER
You are reading my post because of two reasons, either you are intrigued if you really have an obligation or if you wanted to know the answers. Several people would react to my post and say in a sexual relationship no one is really obligated because a sexual act should be done in freewill. YES that is true. But the situation becomes different if you are in marriage. Part of your obligation as a wife is to fulfill the sexual needs of your husband. Of course it should also be mutual and not forced but you should be aware that such responsibility exists.
Do you know the reasons why most women especially those in their 40's refuse to have regular sexual activity with their husbands?
I have been an OB-GYN for 9 years already and I have encountered complaints from patients why they refuse to do the sexual act.
1. They feel pain on intercourse
2. They are not sexually aroused anymore
3. They feel vaginal dryness no matter how long the foreplay is and because of that there is difficulty in penetration which causes their husbands penis to die down upon entry.
Do you know that as man's age reached 40, the more they become sexually aggressive? As wives, you have to be able to sustain your sexual relation with your husband at this particular stage otherwise you will push them to find gratification from other women.
To start you may ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever felt pain during sexual intercourse?
2. Have you had less sex with your partner?
3. Have you felt vaginal dryness?
4. Have you forgotten to achieve orgasm?
If your answer is yes to any of the above. You should seek help but should not be worried. Contrary to what you formerly believed that Menopause or Perimenopause is a stage you cannot escape we now have solutions to the symptoms of menopause especially those that are sexually related.
Some patients justified their sexual incapacities and blame it on the menopausal stage. Some resort to hormonal replacement therapy just to be able to maintain their youthful glow however HRT are harmful with prolonged use.
I am very lucky to have attended this Vulvovaginal Laser Reshaping Course in Florence, Italy. It is a non surgical way to help you achieve sexual gratification by resolving the symptoms of dryness and pain. DEKA's new innovative technology that touches on the most intimate needs of a women will definitely help save relationships especially between husband's and wives.
Now you won't have any reason to say no to your partner and your husband won't have any more reason to find satisfaction from another woman.
This DEKA TECHNOLOGY that would Rejuvenate your vagina is UNIQUE in the world. All DEKA innovations are supported with clinical trials that means it has a scientific basis. It would be available soon in the PHILIPPINES and only at SHINAGAWA.
To be updated on this check their facebook account.
or email the author here
Do you know the reasons why most women especially those in their 40's refuse to have regular sexual activity with their husbands?
I have been an OB-GYN for 9 years already and I have encountered complaints from patients why they refuse to do the sexual act.
1. They feel pain on intercourse
2. They are not sexually aroused anymore
3. They feel vaginal dryness no matter how long the foreplay is and because of that there is difficulty in penetration which causes their husbands penis to die down upon entry.
Do you know that as man's age reached 40, the more they become sexually aggressive? As wives, you have to be able to sustain your sexual relation with your husband at this particular stage otherwise you will push them to find gratification from other women.
To start you may ask yourself these questions:
1. Have you ever felt pain during sexual intercourse?
2. Have you had less sex with your partner?
3. Have you felt vaginal dryness?
4. Have you forgotten to achieve orgasm?
If your answer is yes to any of the above. You should seek help but should not be worried. Contrary to what you formerly believed that Menopause or Perimenopause is a stage you cannot escape we now have solutions to the symptoms of menopause especially those that are sexually related.
Some patients justified their sexual incapacities and blame it on the menopausal stage. Some resort to hormonal replacement therapy just to be able to maintain their youthful glow however HRT are harmful with prolonged use.
I am very lucky to have attended this Vulvovaginal Laser Reshaping Course in Florence, Italy. It is a non surgical way to help you achieve sexual gratification by resolving the symptoms of dryness and pain. DEKA's new innovative technology that touches on the most intimate needs of a women will definitely help save relationships especially between husband's and wives.
Now you won't have any reason to say no to your partner and your husband won't have any more reason to find satisfaction from another woman.
This DEKA TECHNOLOGY that would Rejuvenate your vagina is UNIQUE in the world. All DEKA innovations are supported with clinical trials that means it has a scientific basis. It would be available soon in the PHILIPPINES and only at SHINAGAWA.
To be updated on this check their facebook account.
or email the author here
On Mother's Day....my own " Mother's Day"
TODAY is Mother's Day all around the world....so I decided to delay my "CIAO ITALIA" travelogue to post this....
Being a sentimental mother you would somehow expect to wake up with a surprise just like what you see in the movies...husband cooking a special breakfast..a bouquet of flower, chocolates and love notes on the table or maybe a breakfast in bed. Cards from your children or just being extra nice to mommy during this day.
If all mothers would have the same expectations everytime during mother's day, all would wake up to dissappointment. I would rather wake up to reality...to the usual day than expect something special when people seem to be too nice in just one day just because it's " MOTHER'S DAY" then suddenly reverts back to normal the following day.
So what is mother's day celebration really all about?
in my readings..mother's day was proclaimed official on May 8, 1914 by President Woodrow Wilson through the efforts of Anna Jarvis who fought for recognition of mothers and that one day be devoted to them.
So it is in essence thanking your mother for taking care of you and for proper upbringing. This should be initiated by the ones who are being thankful. Admit it that days before mother's day, being a mother you expect your children to celebrate that day with you and you expect your husband to greet you as a sign of gratitude for rearing his children. Only a hypocrite would say she did not expect something different on this day.
I on the other hand expected something different. Since I have known my husband for 13 years and realized that he is not that kind of person who is literally "romantic"(..the last time I received a bouquet of white roses from him was April 27, 1998) I never expected flowers on this day. And because when he was courting me he only have written less than 10 love letters, why would I expect a love note on this day?. And chocolates? impossible because I have lots of Swiss Chocolates in the fridge from my recent travel in Florence. How about a special breakfast? well the maid has instruction already last night to cook hash browns and "longganisa".
So what do I really expect? just a day to spend quality time with my family....no hot heads or raising of voices...but it seems even expecting a little is very hard to achieve...
I woke up 11am...breakfast cooked already by our maid....hubby started to being hot headed again because the maid did not follow instructions and never remembers everything...and I being a cool person who happens to care less about household stuffs than my husband would never stress myself on little things like that.. I told him to cool down a little.
Then here is my daughter crying because daddy scolded him for answering back. I told my baby that daddy is not in the mood because of "yaya" and her answering back which daddy misinterpreted as a sign of disrespect and aggravated the situation even more. Daughter kissed me and greeted me Happy Mother's Day. Now we are in 3 separate corners of the room not talking to each other and facing our own computers.. they said when there is a storm sometimes better to let it pass than brave it. I still have 11 hours to celebrate mother's day but my question is "Should I really be celebrating it just like the people all around the world?". For me, unless people I love would make it really special there is nothing really special on this day.
We as mothers know our role in the family and from the very beginning we have given unconditional love to our husbands and children.We have learned not to expect anything in return. We have mastered the word forgiveness and sacrifice. We have practice self control and have struggled to make home a stress free environment..
So to mother's out there who has not received any special treatment or did not receive gifts never feel bad about it. People(our loved ones) differ, they differ in the way they express themselves..don't expect them to change just to make you happy for one day. Never envy other people and moms for that matter. What is important is you are together as a family and it is all that matters. Would you rather trade places with a mother who received a special greeting and gift from a husband who is miles and miles away working? I'm sure you won't.
So this is my "Mother's Day" to exercise my role in pacifying people around the house just to keep everything balanced..
Today is no extraordinary day...but I am happy being with my family even if we have our own indifferences.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
Being a sentimental mother you would somehow expect to wake up with a surprise just like what you see in the movies...husband cooking a special breakfast..a bouquet of flower, chocolates and love notes on the table or maybe a breakfast in bed. Cards from your children or just being extra nice to mommy during this day.
If all mothers would have the same expectations everytime during mother's day, all would wake up to dissappointment. I would rather wake up to reality...to the usual day than expect something special when people seem to be too nice in just one day just because it's " MOTHER'S DAY" then suddenly reverts back to normal the following day.
So what is mother's day celebration really all about?
in my readings..mother's day was proclaimed official on May 8, 1914 by President Woodrow Wilson through the efforts of Anna Jarvis who fought for recognition of mothers and that one day be devoted to them.
So it is in essence thanking your mother for taking care of you and for proper upbringing. This should be initiated by the ones who are being thankful. Admit it that days before mother's day, being a mother you expect your children to celebrate that day with you and you expect your husband to greet you as a sign of gratitude for rearing his children. Only a hypocrite would say she did not expect something different on this day.
I on the other hand expected something different. Since I have known my husband for 13 years and realized that he is not that kind of person who is literally "romantic"(..the last time I received a bouquet of white roses from him was April 27, 1998) I never expected flowers on this day. And because when he was courting me he only have written less than 10 love letters, why would I expect a love note on this day?. And chocolates? impossible because I have lots of Swiss Chocolates in the fridge from my recent travel in Florence. How about a special breakfast? well the maid has instruction already last night to cook hash browns and "longganisa".
So what do I really expect? just a day to spend quality time with my family....no hot heads or raising of voices...but it seems even expecting a little is very hard to achieve...
I woke up 11am...breakfast cooked already by our maid....hubby started to being hot headed again because the maid did not follow instructions and never remembers everything...and I being a cool person who happens to care less about household stuffs than my husband would never stress myself on little things like that.. I told him to cool down a little.
Then here is my daughter crying because daddy scolded him for answering back. I told my baby that daddy is not in the mood because of "yaya" and her answering back which daddy misinterpreted as a sign of disrespect and aggravated the situation even more. Daughter kissed me and greeted me Happy Mother's Day. Now we are in 3 separate corners of the room not talking to each other and facing our own computers.. they said when there is a storm sometimes better to let it pass than brave it. I still have 11 hours to celebrate mother's day but my question is "Should I really be celebrating it just like the people all around the world?". For me, unless people I love would make it really special there is nothing really special on this day.
We as mothers know our role in the family and from the very beginning we have given unconditional love to our husbands and children.We have learned not to expect anything in return. We have mastered the word forgiveness and sacrifice. We have practice self control and have struggled to make home a stress free environment..
So to mother's out there who has not received any special treatment or did not receive gifts never feel bad about it. People(our loved ones) differ, they differ in the way they express themselves..don't expect them to change just to make you happy for one day. Never envy other people and moms for that matter. What is important is you are together as a family and it is all that matters. Would you rather trade places with a mother who received a special greeting and gift from a husband who is miles and miles away working? I'm sure you won't.
So this is my "Mother's Day" to exercise my role in pacifying people around the house just to keep everything balanced..
Today is no extraordinary day...but I am happy being with my family even if we have our own indifferences.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!
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