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Sunday, August 12, 2012

PANDORA'S BOX: The Way to a Woman's Heart...

It's an old cliche that " the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" but how about the way to a woman's heart. Is it only the woman who thinks about how to get close to the man of her dreams? WRONG!!

Men also find ways on how to get the woman of their dreams or if they have them how to maintain them. There is this Pandora's System created by Vin DiCarlo that helps men on their dating strategies with women. For a price of $69.95 it promises to get you any woman that you dreamed of having, no matter how you look or how old you are.

It's insane why men will resort to this stuff..are they really that desperate? The world has a ratio of 2:1 women more than men so its impossible not to have one for you.

Pandora's Box is an artifact in Greek mythology, taken from the myth of Pandora's creation in Hesiod's Works and Days. The "box" was actually a large jar given to Pandora ("all-gifted", "all-giving"),which contained all the evils of the world. Today, to open Pandora's box means to create evil that cannot be undone.


In classical Greek mythology, Pandora was the first woman on Earth. Zeus ordered Hephaestus, the god of craftsmanship, to create her, so he did—using water and Earth. The gods endowed her with many gifts: Athena clothed her, Aphrodite gave her beauty, and Hermes gave her speech.
When Prometheus stole fire from heaven, Zeus took vengeance by presenting Pandora to Epimetheus, Prometheus' brother. With her, Pandora was given a beautiful container which she was not to open under any circumstance. Impelled by her curiosity given to her by the gods, Pandora opened it, and all evil contained therein escaped and spread over the earth. She hastened to close the container, but the whole contents had escaped, except for one thing that lay at the bottom, which was the Spirit of Hope named Elpis. Pandora was deeply saddened by what she had done, and was afraid that she would have to face Zeus' wrath, since she had failed her duty; however, Zeus did not punish Pandora, because he knew this would happen.

I will list down 3 things women want and this is based on my personal experience and the experiences of my patients mentioned to me during counselling.

1. Women are attracted to men who are emotionally mature. Although some women like men get attracted visually too, a greater percentage of women look beyond the physical attributes. Who wouldn't want someone who looked like Brad Pitt or Ian Somerhalder? almost if not all do but would you want an immature Brad Pitt or a childish Ian Somerhalder? OF COURSE NOT!! The " looks" is a bonus. It's a man's maturity that attracts women the most. We wanted someone who can take care of us.

2. Women like men who carry themselves well, never insecure. Some men are very protective and jealous of other men and it boils down to insecurity. It only happens if you are not confident about yourself and with your relationship.

3. Women are shallow. All women wanted flowers and chocolates and the sweetness that goes along with it. Women wanted being appreciated and accepted for what they are. If you have a partner who gained weight after giving birth it is not their fault. I have several patients desperate to get rid of their bulging bellies or their stretchmarks because they have fears that their partners might look at other women. Men should make their women feel appreciated. Men should see beyond those bulging bellies and unwanted stretchmarks.

So a way to a woman's heart is not through PANDORA's BOX. It being who you are (no pretensions) and willing to change the negative aspects of your personality for the better but not to change yourself just to please the one you love.

Besides if you are on the mission to get the woman you want, remember not to force anything because if you are meant to be, the situation will be going in your favor. Love is something not forced.

If you have your woman already, keeping her by your side would be easy by making her feel that she is the luckiest woman in the world by having you. So it boils down not on pleasing your woman but by making her feel you love her completely.

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